| Location | Slough |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 18/06/2007 |
| Date of Death | 18/06/2007 |
| Visitors | 237 since 13/11/2009 |
| Creator |
I was 29 weeks with my little angel michelle when i went to a routine check up at the midwife and she ask to hear the heart beat of my little girl on the 15th of june 2007 and she said she couldnt find a heart beat so she sent me to hospital where i had a scan and the scan lady said sorry but your baby has died.
I just broke down in tears and it was the first time i had ever seen my partner cry and my other little boy was only 10 months old
i actually got induced on monday 18th of june and had her at 4.45 weighing 2lb 5oz .
the hardest part for me is that i found out my little angel had died inside me when my sister gave birth 2 her little girl.
my future sister in law had a prem baby and she died and she came my rock becoz she knew what i was going though so thanks john and liz mciver for your support.
luv linda and steve
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
Our special McIver family bond!
Tommy’s – The Baby Charity. www.tommys.org - Tommy's exists to save babies' lives through funding research into and providing information on the causes and prevention of miscarriage, premature birth and stillbirth. The charity gives information on pregnancy; statistics to information on maternity rights, there are other links to charities in related areas such as Stillbirth & Neonatal Death Society (Sands) and Bliss – The premature baby charity.
My sister-in law to be, experienced a stillbirth of her daughter Michelle at 29 weeks, we live 200 miles apart, through these charities and my own experience I was able to offer her strength and support. Her bereavement support through the NHS was very poor and I was always one step ahead to prepare her for making those precious memories. I told her to take a camera to take photographs, baby clothes to bath and dress her baby. I advised her to get assistance for obtaining footprints and hand prints from her baby. Without me and these charities, Linda’s memories would fade along with her strength to cope.
I too have an angel baby jennifer McIver (Michelle's cousin),so helping others is my gift to Jenny and Michelle.
Our Baby Niece
We didn’t get the chance, to take your tiny hand
And watch you with your cousins, in your childhood playing in the sand.
And though there really wasn’t chance to show you all the love,
How heavenly you have been drawn upwards by the dove
Now playing with cousin baby Jenny in the journey through the skies
Is now where your destiny lies
Remember, darling that your tiny heart must know
That we will all always treasure you and your memory will grow.
Born Still - by Unknown Author
Do you know how hard it is
To hold a baby who doesn’t cry?
Do you know how hard it is
To tell that baby Goodbye?
Do you know how hard it is
To look at an empty bed?
Knowing your child should be there
Resting her sleepy head?
Do you know how hard it is
Feeling you’re to blame?
And no matter what they tell you
You'll always feel the same.
Do you know the heartache
Knowing she's gone for good?
And feeling that you didn't
Do all the things you could.
Do you know how hard it is
To hear that it's Gods will?
Do you know the emptiness
When your child is born still?
Unfortunately we do!
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